Control your emotions or be controlled by them
To be of two minds
To get everyone working together
To be captivated
To use tough love
To worry about other people's problems
To fuss over
Everywhere throughout history
Tough, unrelenting
To be shocked; To be taken aback
Humble
wheel hub
Set a beggar on horseback, and he'll ride to the devil
A big talker
Begging with a jeweled goblet
A beggar only has himself to blame
Eye of the tiger
The pot calling the kettle black
black pepper
reliability